Wednesday, October 31, 2012

BlogFEST: Monster Mash

"What secret weird food/dish can't you live without and how'd the predilection develop?" This is the question posed by my friend Daphne for this BlogFEST prompt.

Truth be told...I don't eat anything weird. You could actually say that my eating habits are kind of boring. I don't like any exotic food whatsoever (this made eating in Hawaii rather difficult!) Preferably I eat my foods rather plain. So let's go thru a list of the things I won't eat:
  • Gravy - I don't like any of this brown gloppy stuff on top of my food. My rule of thumb is if I can't identify it, I don't eat it. Pouring this stuff on top of my food just serves to mask all those little unknown things underneath. I need to see what I am eating please!
  • Salmon patties - Does anyone remember these? They resemble hamburgers, except they are made out salmon from a can. My mom made these all the time when I was growing up. The only good thing about the meal was the fact that the side dish was noodles with cracker crumbs. I liked these...just hated the salmon patties. I vowed to myself that I would never eat another one when I moved out of the house. I never did. Today my husband makes me fresh salmon...I'll share that recipe soon!
  • Since we are on the subject of fish...let's just say that I throw up a big fat "no" to sushi. While the hubs loves this stuff...you'll never see any of it passing through my lips.
  • Brussel sprouts - No, no, no and NO! Give me green beans, peas, even asparagus please, but no B.S.!
  • Avocados...not a snowballs chance in ?#@*&%!. Are you trying to kill me? The ramifications if I ingested one of these again would be deadly.
  • Indian, Thai and any other ethnic food that I can't identify or pronounce. Also, some of the spices are a little OTT and my system just can't handle them. Funny enough, I do like some Chinese food, but just a very small part of what is serve in this cuisine.
Now, please don't get me wrong, I do like food! I am a big foodie! I just have certain...um...well...I guess I'll say "ways" I like to eat. Bring on the fresh veggies, whole grains and protein meats please. Plain food...no sauces (if I can help it) and wholesome goodness. Yeah...that's me! I'm a little angel when it comes to food!

Wait a minute! Who's that guy flying behind me?!?!?! Oh yeah....he's the chocolate devil trying to blow my cover! Shoo...shoo I say! Go hide behind that cloud...I don't want everyone to know!

Ok...(hanging head)...I admit it. I'm...I'm...I'm a chocoholic...I ADMIT IT! Sweets are my downfall...especially chocolate...Believe it or not, there are some things made with chocolate that are so orgasmically good, you just have to taste them to believe it. I know...because I have tasted them and sincerely enjoyed the the "out of body, earth shattering, make my toes curl...oops, getting a little carried away here!) experience that inevitably followed.

SO I will say this to you...moderation. Everything in moderation...even if it means that I have to eat a little B.S!

Wishing you "delicious, and comforting; even if you can't identify it" moments of amazing food!

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Monday, October 29, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: My Favorite Halloween Memories

I don't have many childhood memories of Halloween. My parents were too overprotective. We also lived far out in the country and we rarely had anyone come to our door. I had to sit for awhile to really think about it, and I only recall one time when I was actually invited to a Halloween party. I dressed up as a gypsy (I have the picture somewhere...just not digitally) and went down the street to hang out with a girl I went to school with. I think the only reason my mom and dad let me go was because the party was close by and next door to my grandparents who live on the same street as us. Otherwise, I don't think I ever went trick or treating. Not that I didn't want to, my parents just wouldn't let me. Come to think of it, I didn't do much as a kid in terms of parties, events, dates, or whatever. I didn't really care because I got a lot of other stuff to make up for it.

I guess you could say that when I was a kid, Halloween was just another day for me.

It wasn't until I was older, married and moved away that I started to enjoy this holiday a whole lot more. My husband made it up to me by decorating the outside of the house. Last year's decor was absolutely awesome. We had lights, a lighted torch, a witch's broom and a fog machine!  I'm pretty sure I blogged about it last year...but if not, here are some of those photos...

This is my scarecrow...I made him a long time ago. He hangs out on my door every year. I remember the first year I put him on display. I was so afraid someone was going to steal him. I spent a lot of hours putting him together so I would really be heartbroken if that ever happened. So far...he's still around...and just hanging out on my door.











My husband had the brilliant idea to put a torch up last year. It scared the neighbor lady, who's not from this country, and she wouldn't let her kids come over for tricks or treats. I think she thought I really was a witch...who...me?!?! Frankly, I just thought it was absolutely hilarious...

This is my witch's broom...I tried to find one that I liked, but all the ones in the catalogs and craft stores were either too cheap looking, too small or just lame. The hubs made this one for me and I was just tickled pink...oops!...black when I saw it! Anyway, I still have it and it looks just as good today as when he originally made it for me.












This is one of my favorite photos... I was just snapping away while my husband was playing with the fog machine. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw what I had taken. Very spooky!














Wishing you moments of wonderful Halloween memories!

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Sunday, October 28, 2012

BlogFEST 2012:The Best Day In My Life

This is actually a really tough prompt for me to answer...because I don't have just one. There are so many "best days" for me:
  • the day I graduated college. What an honor to be the only one in my family to do so.
  • the day I moved out of the house. My first taste of true independence.
  • the day I got married. Finally knew I was going to be with the one I love for the rest of my life.
Getting married meant that my life would never be the same again. In fact, it's been one big adventure after another since then; several new jobs, and lots of really cool vacations. However, there are been several days that were definitely not the "best day" of my life. I won't go into any more details because I don't want to beat a dead horse and frankly, I'm over it.

While I may have missed out many of your best days though, such as the day your child was born, got married or had grand children; I think my best days are yet to come. Plans are percolating in the back of my head. Things are going better than ever before and I finally feel like I am back on track after several years of feeling lost.

Truthfully though...my best day...is every day that I wake up happy and ready to face whatever may come my way!

Wishing you moments where every day is your best day!

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Friday, October 26, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: A Weighty Issue

DISCLAIMER: The topic for today's BlogFEST 2012 is a very sore subject for me. Please note that the following diatribe is NOT directed toward anyone who's participating in this event (or reading this), but merely a post regarding the topic of obesity and how much having this subject thrown in my face time and again affects me. It is, indeed, a weighty issue.

I have never been very thin. I have always had curves. I have a big a$$. (There's nothing I can do about that except have it surgically reduced; which I have thought about.) What I am really sick and tired of is the media, and the fashion industry telling "ME" what size I am suppose to be. Who died and left you all "GOD" when it comes to deciding what the "standard" sizes are? When did size "00" come into existence and become acceptable? Have you all lost your minds?!?!

Here are some personal facts:
  • I have never been nor will I ever be a size "00".
  • I have struggled my whole life with weight issues. I don't need to be reminded about it on a daily basis. Here's a NEWS FLASH for you...I LIVE WITH IT ON A DAILY BASIS!
  • I don't have children, so I can't blame my "weighty issue" on that. However, have you ever asked any of us non-skinny women if perhaps there is a medical reason why we are not the stick figures you want us to idolize? Perhaps you should. It might enlighten you!
  • I currently work with a variety of doctors, therapists and health professionals to help me get healthy. It is a long and sometimes painful process. You have no idea what I have had to endure this last year.
  • I like to eat so I know that cutting calories drastically is not good for you. What I need to do is redirect my choices to more healthy ones. I am learning to do that. A lifetime of habits don't get overturned in one night. It's a long process and I'm trying to do better, but sometimes I fall off the wagon.
  • It's taken a long time to accept myself for who I am. To be honest I haven't always liked myself, much less, love myself. I've only recently came to this realization. The road to a newer, more healthier me is freshly paved and I am taking it slow as I travel on this new and un-chartered journey. 
  • BTW...everyone's journey is un-chartered because we are all different. What works for you may not work for me. But I'll find my way...on my own terms.
Seriously folks, I know there is a problem out there. But I can't take it anymore! Clothing stores dedicated to the skinny populous, thin people on exercise dvds and elsewhere telling you to lift that leg higher. ENOUGH!

I have my own plan and it is working. Just leave me to it without throwing it back in my face every time I turn on the television or pick up a magazine.  I'll never be tall (sorry, I'm only 5'3" on a good day), never be blond (my brown hair is mostly gray, so I color it as dark as possible because I refuse to look old), or never be thin. All I can be is me...working toward overall health and happy with who I am.

On a final note...here is one of my favorite lines from the movie, The Incredibles:

"Supermodels. HA! Nothing super about them. Spoiled, stupid little stick figures with poofy lips who think only about themselves" - Edna Mode.

I am so glad I'm not a super model...I'd never survive being in the industry.

Wishing you moments to love yourself for who you are...

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Thursday, October 25, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: Hot or Cold?

Would I rather be hot or cold? Well let me think about that a minute...

Would I rather be here?

  
Doing this?


Or would I rather be here?


Doing this?


I think you already know the answer to that! But in case you don't...

 As much as I love this:


I'd rather be doing this:



Wishing you moments of either hot or cold (depending on your preference!)

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Wednesday, October 24, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: What Do I Value?

What do I value?
You've asked of me.
My health is important,
I'm sure you'll agree.

The love of family
is not far behind.
Without them I'm nothing,
please bear that in mind.

Peace and serenity
is my third choice.
I've waited so long,
and now I rejoice.

I value old friends
I wish we could be tighter.
Though the distance is great,
the connection seems brighter.

New friendships abound
oh what a surprise.
So glad I found you,
hope there's never goodbyes.

But most of all,
I have to say.
I value myself,
'cause I'm finally okay.

It's been a long time coming,
I thought I'd never arrive.
I took a big hit,
worse than a swan dive.

I'm back with a vengeance
steeped in love of a good man.
Pen to paper with feeling
and a really great plan.



Wishing you valuable moments!

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Tuesday, October 23, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: Vacations - Relaxing or Exhausting

I've had some pretty amazing vacations over the years. I spent the better part of my childhood going to Florida almost every year. Sometimes it was during the Christmas holidays, other times it was during Easter break or right after school let out. My family traveled in a small RV...not like the big ones you see on the road today, big enough to fit a growing family of four and a dog.

We all had our spots to sit in. I was relegated to siting at the mock kitchen table, which later folded down into my bed. I racked up thousands of miles in that seat - from Wisconsin to Florida and back; to Michigan and back and all points in between and as far west as the Mississippi River and all the way east to Pennsylvania.

I have tons of photos from those trips...but not in digital format. They are in the old fashioned print format, and someday I really must dig them out to transfer them to digital. They all represent fond memories of long ago. There were times I really hated those vacations. I was bored with nothing to do on those drives and I didn't get to see much except for a lot of fast whizzing scenery out the side window. Probably the reason I get car sick these days...all those years looking out that darn window.

I think the vacations stopped when I started working and moved out of the house. I was on my own and had to make my own fun. I finally had a car and made my first real trip all by myself from Racine, WI to New Holstein, WI to see my college girlfriend who I hadn't seen in a really long time. It was a whole 100 miles and I drove it with a busted speedometer in the winter. My mom didn't want me to go, but I just had to get away so I went and hoped that I wouldn't get busted for speeding. For the record, I made it there and back without any problems...except for the non-functioning speedometer!

Right after I got married, my husband and I moved to Arizona. We spent our first few days of married life in a U-Haul pulling my car behind it. Oh what fun that was...Not (lol)! We spent the next several years vacationing all over Arizona and the west...have tent will travel! We saw so many wonderful places and again took numerous photos (non digital again!). Now we are vacationing again, but we've graduated to motels/hotels/B&B's, with an occasional tent experience in between.



So...have my vacations been relaxing or exhausting? Depends...as a child, all I had to do was show up. So those were probably relaxing (except for those car...whoops!...I mean RV sick episodes!) These days, I have to pack and haul stuff out to the car. If we're taking a camping trip, it's even more complicated. So I'd classify these as exhausting but really exciting because the trips are becoming more enjoyable because I get to decide what we do most of the time!

Our next trip...actually I think we're taking off for a couple of days right before the Christmas holiday to to take a short trip on the The Christmas Train! I can't wait!




Wishing you moments to reminisce about great vacations and plan the next one!

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Monday, October 22, 2012

BlogFEST 2012: Judging a Book by It's Cover

I am well acquainted with this topic because I am usually on the end of being judged. Case in point, see the review I posted below about a recent visit to a favorite store:


"I just loved this store...when they were in XX Mall. Now that they moved to XX Village, they've gone all uptown in both merchandise and attitude. Let me just give you a lesson in great customer service, which I am well acquainted with and have been providing for over 25 years.

1. If you want to have loyal customers, you should be nice to them. Just because I'm not "uptown" doesn't mean my money doesn't spend like the rest of your clientele's money. For the record, I actually have money even though I may not look like it.

2. Don't have someone walk around your store and act like they are better than everyone else there. It gives a bad impression to your customers. You know what I am talking about...the "holier than thou" attitude. Just a thought, but consider shelving it.

3. If a customer comes up to you asking if you have a product, don't immediately say with an attitude, "If it's not on the shelf, we don't have it." How about saying something like "I am so sorry, let me check for you." Then go check and find out when more stock will become available and come back and tell the customer "We are currently out of that item, but we're expecting a shipment on XX date. May I take your name and number and call you when they come in?" See the difference? Make your customers feel good when they come in and want to buy something. Don't shut them down and make them feel like they're inconveniencing you by asking a question about your stock. Repeat business is huge...especially in a tough economic climate.

4. Treat your customers with respect and dignity. Just because I don't look high class, doesn't mean I am not. You don't know what I've been doing or where I've been. Don't stereotype your clientele. Remember the movie Pretty Woman with Julia Roberts? If not, you should watch it. There's a great scene in it that covers this very nicely.

5. Don't let customers wait to pay while you're conversing, walking around like you own the place or doing other work that can wait until the customers leave the store. Not only was I treated rudely, but when I actually decided to buy what I hand in my hand, I had to wait until said rude sales clerk decided to come over to the register to ring me up. You do realize that your customers are not all soccer moms that drive SUV's and don't work. Some of us are on our lunch hour and that's all the time we have - an hour. You want us to come back and be loyal, well, a little courtesy goes a long way.

By the way, what happened to the products that you used to sell. Merchandise is everything. I realize you moved, but part of your success at XX Mall was the fact that you had great merchandise that appealed to everyone. Now that you're in XX Village, your products are so upscale and pricey that you've lost half of your clientele because we can't afford, or sorry to say, even like it.

Seriously, your products used to be cute and charming. Now they are expensive, gaudy and frankly, most of them I wouldn't be caught dead owning them. What I purchased today was a staple item...every home has them. It's simple, comes in a lot of colors (which apparently you don't have a lot of since they "weren't on the shelf") and fairly inexpensive.

Come to think of it, you didn't have a lot of this particular type of product in your store at all. Pity...you were such a fun place with all the holiday decorations, etc. I guess I'll have to order more of what I wanted online since you didn't seem to care if you had it or not or the fact that I was a loyal customer.

It's your lose. I am sure the online stores will gladly take my money and ship it for free. Fabulous as this saves me time and money. Such great customer service too! You should take a lesson from online retailers. This is why they are so successful and the brick and mortar stores are dying off."

Needless to say, I wasn't a happy camper. Fortunately, I received a private email from the owner with her comment below:

Hi Susan D.,
This is Lynette, the owner of XX store. Let me say first of all how very sorry I am that you left my store feeling so bad. I have worked for 31 years stressing how important it is to treat everyone fairly and kindly, but as you know it doesn't always happen. The behavior you describe is totally unacceptable to me and if I knew who it was I'd address them directly. Instead I posted your review on our message board with a letter from me telling them all that this "cannot happen".  It never should!  Your suggestions to my staff were all perfect and I hope hearing them from you, the customer, made a bigger impression than I have been able to.
To answer your concern about products, no it's not the same as it was and I have lost a lot of customers from the past. But that's the tricky thing about retail, if you don't change you won't be in business anymore. I keep track of everything that is purchased and buy more of those things that are selling and get rid of the categories that are not selling. The customers basically "vote" for the things they like by purchasing them and that dictates the direction I go. I know the store isn't  for everyone, but it's for the greatest number of buying customers. It's what has kept me in business for 31 years and we were  just recently voted "The Best".
If you choose to continue to shop here, I'd love to know how you are treated next time. I always appreciate it when customers email or call me direct so that I can have a chance to rectify what has happened that made them so upset. My personal email is XX and please feel free to use it.
Once again I am truly sorry!

Just to be fair, I didn't write this review to get anything free from the store...I just wanted to share my honest feelings about the experience. I was truly annoyed at the whole thing and felt it only fair to let the owner know. I am glad she responded and maybe one day, I will go back to revisit. 

In any case, this is my personal and most recent experience with being judged by my "cover". It's happened before and I am sure it will happen again. And each time it does, it truly hurts me deeply.

Wishing you moments of "not being judged by your cover".

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Saturday, October 20, 2012

BlogFEST: Putting Myself on the Backburner...

...as a child, yes. Definitely. All the time. I grew up in a world of "being seen, and not heard". I was taught right from wrong and basically had to live by the rules of the house I lived in. As a kid, I didn't know any better, so I conformed. I didn't want to create any trouble, but then again, I didn't get to do much and really didn't have a mind of my own until I grew up and started to experience the world.

I guess that happened in college. From that point forward, I started to buck the system.

Today, as an adult, I enjoy the fact that I don't have to live by the house rules, but by my own rules. At work, I do what I am suppose to do and if in doubt, ask. I still have opinions but I stick to what I know and do it very well. But outside of work, I am my own person and I make my own rules and live my life the way I see fit.

While I think that it is healthy to have a difference of opinion, sometimes you will never agree on things, so my motto in that circumstance is "to agree to disagree". My husband and I don't always agree on things, but I don't expect it. And I don't always agree with my parents either. But today, I am not afraid to speak up...to anyone.

And no matter what, I'm never going to be on the backburner again.

Wishing you moments to put yourself on the front burner!

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BlogFEST 2012 Dear Past Me/Dear Future Me

Dear Past Me:

If I could give you one gift, it would be to appreciate every moment of your growing up. The good, the bad and the ugly. Time moves so quickly. You won't always be sad, you won't always be unhappy. Everything that you will go thru will be so worth it in the end.

Enjoy the time you spend with the ones you love, because you don't know how long they will be around. Take your time and cherish every moment with them.

Write down your thoughts and don't keep them all in your head.You are a truly remarkable person and have wonderful gifts to share with everyone.

Love,

Your Present Self,

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Dear Future Me,

Will you please slow down? Stop doing so much! Take the time to smell the roses and enjoy life. I know you have a lot on your mind, but you need to do a brain dump or something so that you can concentrate on doing things one at a time instead of all at the same time.

Stop worrying too! Everything will happen as you want it, just going to take a bit of time. Worry will get you no where, and it is a waste of time.

Put yourself first for a change. You spend so much time taking care of other people's needs, that you forget to take care of your own. No one will think any less of you.

Your Present Self,

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BlogFEST 2012 - Dedication


D is for the devotion that I have for you...

E is for every day I am happy being with you...

D is for dependable; that's what you are to me...

I is for I love you that I say to you daily...

C is for cuddling on the couch tonight...

A is for always taking care of me...

T is for tenderly getting it right...

I is for I only want to be with you...

O is for off-the-wall laughter shared daily...

N is for never leaving me lonely or alone...

Put them all together and you get this D-E-D-I-C-A-T-I-O-N to the one I love the most...

my hubby!




Wishing you moments of great dedications!

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Thursday, October 18, 2012

There's Never Enough Time

In my world, there never seems to be enough time to...
  • clean up the bedroom, that doubles for my office/studio.
  • finish that shredding project laying on the floor.
  • put away all the clothes laying on the chair.
  • hem those pants that I spent all that money on and can't wear.
  • finish that book sitting on the floor in the bathroom.
  • file all the crap that's laying next to the shredding.
  • clean up the piles laying on my makeshift desk, and everywhere else around the house.
  • do the dishes and put them away.
  • do the research I need to do.
  • write the articles I need to write.
  • practice the recipes that I need to work on for my cookbook/articles.
Ok, you get the idea. There isn't enough time in my day. Not enough time to get everything done on a personal level and as far as work, well you can forget that too.

Who decided that there was only going to be 24 hours in a day? Who decided that the work day was eight hours? Who decided that you had to get eight hours of sleep every night? And who said 10:00pm was the acceptable time to go to bed? Who decides...

My  point is that only you can decide what is important. Only you can decide what needs to be done and when. Only you can decide what to do with your spare time. Only you can decide...period.
So don't sweat the small stuff! If things don't get done today, it will all be there tomorrow, and the day after that, and the day after that. If you get one thing done today, then hallelujah! If you just get one thing done today and one thing done tomorrow, then can I get a "high five"! But, if you don't get anything done, then so be it, because the reality is, you will always have something to do, whether it be the laundry, dishes, dinner, taking the kids to all their extra-curricular activities or helping them with their homework.

There is one thing, though, that you should always make time for...yourself. We spend so much of our day taking care of everyone else, that I think we forget to care of little ol' me. Remember..."me" is important. Me needs to have some time for herself. ME needs "ME" time.


So don't worry that the dishes aren't done, the beds are unmade and the laundry is sitting in a heap on the floor. Go out and get yourself a mani/pedi, take a nap, or whatever you want to do to pamper yourself, because in all honesty, the "to do" list will always have something on it. However, if you don't have take care of yourself, you won't be able to take care of anyone else nor will you have the energy to get anything done on that "to do" list.

Take care of you, because there is never enough time not to.

Wishing you moments of "me" time!



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Wednesday, October 17, 2012

BlogFEST 2012 - Photo Prompt - Now I'm A What?

 


"Regardless of who I was, I have changed. I can be who I want, when I want. I'm am my own free per...oops!...lamp. No more being on all the time because I have to be. No sirree! I'll turn on when I want and shut myself off when I feel like it. I don't need anyone's permission either. Hallelujah, I have changed!"

"So without out further ado...I am shutting myself off!"

"Hey! Who turned out the light?"

"Sorry, I am my own free lamp."

"Yea...well, I'm my own free ocean. So feel free to say hello to the next big wave!"

"I don't see nothing."

"You turned yourself off."

"Drat!"


Wishing you moments to change freely!

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BlogFEST 2012 Sorry...

...my muse is calling me tonight...so here are some musical interludes for you...















Tonight I will not feel sorry...and I wish the same for you,

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BlogFEST 2012 - What Movie (or Book) Scene Scares You the Most

Well this is certainly a very good question. Since I, nor anyone else in the house, tend to not watch scary movies or read books that are scary, I can't say if there is any specific movie or book scene that scares me the most because there are so many things, in general, that scare, or in my case, freak me out! 

I will say this, there are certain things that I just can't bring myself to watch and they include:
  • Any kind of horror movies - this is a big "no-no" in my house. 
  • Most science fiction - because frankly, it's too weird for me and that in turn, creeps me out.
  • The black and white version of "A Christmas Carol". Now for those of you that know me, you'll recall how much I love, love, love Christmas movies...except this one. It must be the creepiness of the black and white and the chilling way it was filmed. Perhaps it is the terrific portrayal of Scrooge by Alastair Sim. Who knows...but I will say this...it is one of the last movies I will pick to watch during the holidays!
  • My husband has banned me from watching any of the Harry Potter movies for awhile. I was having strange dreams (he called them nightmares). In any case, I will lay off those flicks for awhile...too bad it's Halloween :-(.
  • Speaking of Harry Potter there is one scene that involves spiders...I hate spiders. So during the Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets when Hagrid said "If anyone wanted ter find out some stuff, all they'd have ter do would be ter follow the spiders. That'd lead 'em right! That's all I'm sayin'.", well I knew I was in for it! My next favorite line during that movie comes from Ron says:
  •  The daily news...oh for shame, for shame! But yes, we did have to ban watching the news in our house. All the violence and other stuff on tv was causing the entire household to have nightmares! We tend to watch just enough to catch the weather and the morning traffic in the morning before we go to work. Otherwise, no news. Now we do know what is going on in the world, so we're not completely oblivious, but lately, the television has been off...off...off.
I know there are a whole lot more things that scare me...but since I prefer to not think about them before bed, I'll just leave you with this:



    Wishing you "un-scary" moments!

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    Saturday, October 13, 2012

    BlogFEST 2012 - Shadowland



     I stand behind him,
    but he doesn't see me.
    He might hear something,
    but he thinks it's the wind.

     I live in the Shadowland,
    silently waiting to escape.
    Watching him from inside
    hoping to be with him outside.

    He's knows I am here somewhere
    and has searched for me for years.
    He just needs to find the key
    to unlock the Shadowland.

    I need to reach him desperately,
     must send him more clues.
    But only thru his dreams
    because that is when he is closest.

    For now I live unseen,
    my voice remains unheard.
    Locked oh so far away 
    deep within the Shadowland.

    But not for long...



    Wishing you moments to escape from the shadows,
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